A curated community for selectively single women 50+
For women who have built lives they enjoy and aren't waiting for a relationship to make them complete.
Who this is for
She is discerning about relationships and discerning about the
rooms she enters. She wants other women who live the way she does.
You'll feel at home here if you want
- Stimulating friendships with interesting women
- Beautiful experiences, good conversation and plenty of laughter
- A community that doesn't treat being single like an emergency
This is not
- A dating service or a place to meet men
- A support group for being single
Pull Up A Chair
An elegant dinner with twelve interesting women. A virtual book reading with wine on a Thursday night. Conversations about travel, reinvention, money, style, dating, aging, or absolutely nothing serious.
Table for One: After Hours
A private monthly conversation.
The Unbothered Book Table
Readings and author conversations.
Sunday at the Table
Coffee and brunch conversation.
Unbothered Conversations
Invited guests and interesting topics.
The Dinner Table
Small in-person dinners in select cities, coming soon.
We weren't looking for a seat at someone else's table. So, we created our own.

Ella Rennings
Author of the Unbothered books and mini-series
Ella Rennings writes the stories at the heart of Unbothered: funny, honest tales from the other sides of love, told for women who have healed, laughed and said “hell no.”
Her books and mini-series are the front porch of Unbothered Universe, and the community is where the conversation continues.
Press play
Listen to the music right here. If it becomes your anthem, take the song home.




