A curated community for selectively single women 50+

For women who have built lives they enjoy and aren't waiting for a relationship to make them complete.

Who this is for

She is discerning about relationships and discerning about the 

rooms she enters. She wants other women who live the way she does.

You'll feel at home here if you want

  • Stimulating friendships with interesting women
  • Beautiful experiences, good conversation and plenty of laughter
  • A community that doesn't treat being single like an emergency

This is not

  • A dating service or a place to meet men
  • A support group for being single

Pull Up A Chair

An elegant dinner with twelve interesting women. A virtual book reading with wine on a Thursday night. Conversations about travel, reinvention, money, style, dating, aging, or absolutely nothing serious.

Table for One: After Hours

A private monthly conversation.

The Unbothered Book Table

Readings and author conversations.

Sunday at the Table

Coffee and brunch conversation.

Unbothered Conversations

Invited guests and interesting topics.

The Dinner Table

Small in-person dinners in select cities, coming soon.

We weren't looking for a seat at someone else's table. So, we created our own.

Ella Rennings

Author of the Unbothered books and mini-series

Ella Rennings writes the stories at the heart of Unbothered: funny, honest tales from the other sides of love, told for women who have healed, laughed and said “hell no.”

Her books and mini-series are the front porch of Unbothered Universe, and the community is where the conversation continues.

Press play

Listen to the music right here. If it becomes your anthem, take the song home.

Books & Merch

Books

Merch

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